SAFE SCHOOLS

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Every school should be a SAFE SCHOOL for young LGBTI people, and the more informed young people are about their sexuality and that of their classmates and peers, the safer their schools and our societies will become.

With this in mind, and especially given the terrible events in Orlando, we have created a free, downloadable resource to complement the film to be used in schools, colleges and youth groups by teachers, counsellors and youth leaders.

You can download the resource here (you will need to have a free ISSUU account), which you can see below.

These resources are for general purpose use with classes of students of secondary level (of 13 years and above). Please note they have been prepared by the team behind the film, not by qualified counsellors. We hope we have the balance and content of activities right but as we are not experts, we would greatly appreciate your feedback and suggestions so that we can continue refining the resource.

Teachers  will know the maturity level of their students, the context in which they work, and the appropriateness of the activities for their classes. A general note is that, given the very personal nature of the subject, we have  tired to balance the nature of the activities between group, pair work and individual working.

We would always ask that teachers consider the needs and sensitivities of any LGBTI students in their class as a priority, and for this reason we suggest the section on ‘THE LANGUAGE’ is an individual activity, in which terms of abuse are contemplated rather than discussed openly. This should be also a consideration in the roleplay activities in the ‘IMAGINE’ section.

There is available a Word version of this resource pack to allow teachers to amend, edit and supplement the pack as they see fit. Email us on thelanguageoflovefilm@gmail.com, with RESOURCE in the Subject line.

There is also a high-resolution downloadable version of the film if schools are having problems streaming the film. Email us as above and we will send you a password.

Do pass this info on to organisations, institutions and groups that you think might be interested in using the film. And your comments are welcome.

For support, advice and information for young LGBTI people, visit:

http://minus18.org.au (Australia)

http://www.safeschoolscoalition.org.au (Australia)

http://www.thetrevorproject.org (USA)

http://www.itgetsbetter.org (International)

#safeschools

#Orlando  #Pulse

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Kim on THE LANGUAGE OF LOVE

THE LOVE THAT DID DARE TO SPEAK ITS NAME

Kim Ho, Times Educational Supplement, 13 December, 2013

When Olympic diver Tom Daley came out, his video went viral. But he wasn’t the first: one young Australian’s film on the same subject was already an internet sensation. Kim Ho reveals why he made it.

In late 2012, I started writing a short film called The Language of Love, a boy’s internal monologue about coming to terms with his homosexuality. Few people could have expected it to evolve into an internet sensation.

I feel I should explain my situation before proceeding further. In New South Wales, Australia, our state Anti-Discrimination Act still allows certain independent schools to expel, refuse admission to or otherwise discriminate against students who are gay or transgender. To uphold the values and ethos of their institution, many schools with a certain religious affiliation are prepared to ostracise vulnerable youths.

With considerable pride, I can say that my school – a major selective independent – fosters a non-denominational ethos, promoting acceptance rather than merely tolerance. Even in an all-boys environment, students can be openly gay with very few cases of bullying. Our headmaster allowed my “coming out” story to be filmed and my classmates celebrated the fact that I’d created a work of art – the subject matter wasn’t a problem.

In January 2013, I performed the film to camera with a small team and a tiny budget. In April, we released it online. Before long, Stephen Fry had tweeted it, and later Dannii Minogue and Ellen DeGeneres. The film was featured by The Sydney Morning Herald, The Advocate, The Huffington Post, BuzzFeed and Upworthy, and screened at festivals in Shanghai and Cardiff. Most importantly for us, it received an overwhelming amount of positive feedback from lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) people around the world. Our little project was exceeding our wildest expectations, which made us wonder what else it might be capable of achieving.

The Language of Love was always firmly rooted in education. As a written monologue, it is part of an initiative run by the Australian Theatre for Young People called The Voices Project, which aims to develop theatrical works written by young Australians that drama students can perform as assessment pieces. However, it quickly became apparent that the work as a film held significant pedagogical value.

I received private messages from gay people saying how it had given them the strength to come out, and heard second hand of a homophobic person reassessing their viewpoint after seeing it. As a result, I believe that film is a very effective medium for social change, and has the potential to profoundly affect the development of ethical mindfulness in children.

Friendship, courage and hope

Unfortunately, I have also observed a subtle, insidious form of discrimination. Boys will use pejoratives like “faggot”, not against gay people but instead to demean or tease their straight friends. Similarly, words like “retard” and “spastic” have also worked their way into schoolyard vernacular. This phenomenon underscores a kind of careless abuse very common in boys my age. That “gay” is now synonymous with “bad” may simply be a representation of thoughtlessness rather than malice. It is human nature to follow other people’s opinions when you have not yet formed your own; it makes sense that this problem would be particularly relevant to young people.

Moreover, I fear that the anonymity afforded on social networks may exacerbate the problem. On Facebook, I frequently see posts known as “frapes”, when someone hijacks their friend’s account and posts an embarrassing status. It is very telling that, among boys, the vast majority of frapes are false confessions of homosexuality, as if it is the most shameful secret imaginable. As an aspiring writer, I despair more at their lack of imagination than anything else, but this strange ritual nevertheless illustrates a new kind of unthinking prejudice.

I therefore maintain that it is essential to start discussions in controlled environments, to initiate thought and reflection on complex issues like these. I don’t profess to be particularly socially minded at 18, but I’ve found it fascinating to observe the reactions of young people towards The Language of Love.

It doesn’t, on the face of it, look as though it should work. It deals with homosexuality, it’s low-budget and surreal, it has an Asian performer who talks incessantly for 10 minutes with an Australian accent – certainly not the type of attention-grabbing content that young people usually consume.

But somehow the film started a discourse. My classmates were very open to talking about the subject matter. They related to the message of friendship, courage and hope regardless of their sexuality and ethnicity. I think the monologue, its form being inherently personal and confessional, became an instructive exercise in empathy.

During class discussions, it’s unrealistic to expect teenagers to be well informed about everything; we all know they have more important things on their minds. A film is an effective way to establish baseline knowledge, but it’s also entertaining. As my monologue mentions, watching French films to inadvertently soak up the language is a lot more enjoyable than studying verb conjugations. How appropriate that my guiding inspiration was a short film promoting marriage equality, It’s Time.

I suspect that the fictionalised nature of The Language of Love creates a special dynamic with the student. By trusting the audience with his innermost thoughts, my protagonist, Charlie, is inviting a comparison between himself and the individual viewer. “What would I do in his situation?” and “How would I react if this were my friend?” are common responses, and I feel they bring people closer to seeing the personal dimension of this particular social issue. Empathy and understanding are surely key to reducing discrimination.

We are fortunate in Western society to be able to express ourselves without fear of persecution, and educational institutions must lead the way. Some will write young people off as impressionable but I prefer to think of them as the most open-minded individuals on the planet. Change is happening, and schools will be the perfect places to nurture a new generation that is thoughtful and considerate, accepting and kind.

Kim Ho, December 2013

Coming Out and On We Go

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Today, Sunday 11th October, is Coming Out Day around the world.

Coming out is the biggest decision a young gay person can face, so it’s important that they have the support and advice needed. Fortunately, even those young people living in remote spaces or in isolated family environments can find support online. Check out some of the great sites that provide comprehensive resources below.

http://minus18.org.au (Australia)
http://www.thetrevorproject.org (USA)
http://www.itgetsbetter.org (International)

Meanwhile, THE LANGUAGE OF LOVE continues to be seen around the world, with more than 1.2 millions views to date across YouTube, vimeo and on a number of platforms in China (where it has amassed more than 280,000 views).

We are also still screening at festivals around the world (see the complete list so far on our Festivals page).

In October, the film (사랑의 언어) will be screening in South Korea, at Chung-Ang University’s Feminists Unite with Queers Film Festival, following its screening earlier this year as the closing film at the 2015 Korean Queer Film Festival.

In November, we are playing at the Bibliothèque d’Olivet in France, as part of Le Mois du Film Documentaire, in the program L’Art de la Belle Écriture.

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If you would be interested in screening the film at a festival or an event, do contact us and let us know.

Happy Coming Out Day and do share the film today.

Melbourne!

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We are off to the Melbourne Queer Film Festival this week and our director, Laura Scrivano, has been chatting with Festival Director, Lisa Daniel. Check out the interview below and book your tickets for the chance to see THE LANGUAGE OF LOVE on the big screen, here. (It’s a huge weekend for us – as well as Melbourne,  we are also appearing at London’s FLARE Gay Festival and Roze Filmdagen, Amsterdam).

You can also read an interview with Kim in The Melbourne Leader, here, while he also has just been interviewed by Richard Watts on Melbourne’s Triple RRR FM  SmartArts program, here. (Kim’s interview begins at 1 hr 35 mins)

YouTube selects THE LANGUAGE OF LOVE for Sundance!

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We are thrilled to have been selected by YouTube to represent the best of indie film on the platform for the Sundance Film Festival, taking place from 16th to 26th January 2014.

YouTube has made three two-minute teaser trailers that are airing before the festival’s short-film screenings. Each trailer promotes a short film already available on YouTube — ours, one from The Museum of Contemporary Art, Los Angeles; and the third from Zealous Creative.

YouTube created the trailers to attract attention to its  short-film library, and to get indie filmmakers, who might thinking about online distribution on YouTube, and advertisers, who might support them.

“Most people don’t think of this amazing content when they think of YouTube,” said YouTube VP-marketing Danielle Tiedt.

You can read the full story, over at Ad Age, here and check out the trailer below.

 

Our director, Laura, is now in Sundance to represent the film, and had this to say:

It’s extremely exciting and an incredible honour to be chosen as one of only three short films from around the world to represent YouTube at Sundance. The level of audience engagement with the film continues to amaze me and it’s wonderful to now see The Language of Love being recognised by the wider film industry. I’m thrilled for Kim Ho, The Voices Project and the entire team.

Laura will be reporting about her adventures on the blog shortly. Meanwhile, watch the FULL film, here.

The Language of Love at the YouTube party.